Category divorce

Coping

One of the most common question I get after my divorce was: How do you cope? How do you deal with loneliness? How do you remain so positive? Essential Oils. Not bullshitting. If you remember my previous post on what’s it like being divorced I mentioned two important things I need to remind you of. Firstly, […]

HOW I FINALLY LOSS SOME WEIGHT

Yep. Do emphasise just a little bit more on FINALLY. How long has it been since I came up with hashtags #bilanakkurus and #howtokurus on my Instagram post? 2016? I’ve probably been hanging about in the 70s since then! When I look back at my Fitbit app, sometime early 2016 I bought myself the Aria […]

10 Things Everyone Should tell You Before Getting Married

EVENthough this relationship of mine only lasted less than a decade. But it was the longest relationship I’ve had. Three boyfriends prior to meeting my husband, and all relationships I never took seriously. Dated a few, never quite learn anything from it. Fast-forward into marriage life and then divorce, here are a couple of things […]

What is it like being divorced after being married for nearly 8 years?

What is it like being divorced after I was married for nearly 8 years, you ask? I’m still trying to get use to it. Eight years of being with someone is a long time of habits and developing comfort zones. Suddenly breaking out of that mould and being ridden with all sorts of responsibilities and […]