Tag Archives: Emotions

Trapped

For the hundredth time in my life, I am at a crossroad. The junction of where I do not know which path I should choose. Neither is easy, neither is going to soothe. Neither could probably lead me to where I long to be. How do you bring yourself to think straight when your mind […]

Coping

One of the most common question I get after my divorce was: How do you cope? How do you deal with loneliness? How do you remain so positive? Essential Oils. Not bullshitting. If you remember my previous post on what’s it like being divorced I mentioned two important things I need to remind you of. Firstly, […]

Dating

Let’s talk about dates. Wow. Would you believe this? This is actually the SECOND time I am writing such a post, the last being 2010! The last time I actually had to write down how I felt about dating, was actually the last time I actually dated anyone, solid. I got married after that! Before […]

10 Things Everyone Should tell You Before Getting Married

EVENthough this relationship of mine only lasted less than a decade. But it was the longest relationship I’ve had. Three boyfriends prior to meeting my husband, and all relationships I never took seriously. Dated a few, never quite learn anything from it. Fast-forward into marriage life and then divorce, here are a couple of things […]

What is it like being divorced after being married for nearly 8 years?

What is it like being divorced after I was married for nearly 8 years, you ask? I’m still trying to get use to it. Eight years of being with someone is a long time of habits and developing comfort zones. Suddenly breaking out of that mould and being ridden with all sorts of responsibilities and […]

Updates!

The last time I actually wrote a proper post, it was January. A lot has happened since then, I think I’ve also transitioned into a very different place from where I was in 2017. Twenty eighteen is coming to an end, you guys, Daniel is turning 4 next year, I am turning 30 and I’m […]

The Lonely Path

(Credit Feature Photo – The Lonely Path) This is not a feel-good post. This is not the self-pity post either.¬†On the contrary, it seems more like a self-reflection, self-searching one. I know and I am terribly aware of the mistakes I had done in the past that has taken me where I am today, and […]