Tag Archives: Life

Trapped

For the hundredth time in my life, I am at a crossroad. The junction of where I do not know which path I should choose. Neither is easy, neither is going to soothe. Neither could probably lead me to where I long to be. How do you bring yourself to think straight when your mind […]

Dating

Let’s talk about dates. Wow. Would you believe this? This is actually the SECOND time I am writing such a post, the last being 2010! The last time I actually had to write down how I felt about dating, was actually the last time I actually dated anyone, solid. I got married after that! Before […]

HOW I FINALLY LOSS SOME WEIGHT

Yep. Do emphasise just a little bit more on FINALLY. How long has it been since I came up with hashtags #bilanakkurus and #howtokurus on my Instagram post? 2016? I’ve probably been hanging about in the 70s since then! When I look back at my Fitbit app, sometime early 2016 I bought myself the Aria […]

10 Things Everyone Should tell You Before Getting Married

EVENthough this relationship of mine only lasted less than a decade. But it was the longest relationship I’ve had. Three boyfriends prior to meeting my husband, and all relationships I never took seriously. Dated a few, never quite learn anything from it. Fast-forward into marriage life and then divorce, here are a couple of things […]

What is it like being divorced after being married for nearly 8 years?

What is it like being divorced after I was married for nearly 8 years, you ask? I’m still trying to get use to it. Eight years of being with someone is a long time of habits and developing comfort zones. Suddenly breaking out of that mould and being ridden with all sorts of responsibilities and […]

Updates!

The last time I actually wrote a proper post, it was January. A lot has happened since then, I think I’ve also transitioned into a very different place from where I was in 2017. Twenty eighteen is coming to an end, you guys, Daniel is turning 4 next year, I am turning 30 and I’m […]

The Lonely Path

(Credit Feature Photo – The Lonely Path) This is not a feel-good post. This is not the self-pity post either.¬†On the contrary, it seems more like a self-reflection, self-searching one. I know and I am terribly aware of the mistakes I had done in the past that has taken me where I am today, and […]